The best source of inspiration!

Every day over 160000 people cease to exist globally. And all have their own way of doing the last rites based on their personal belief system and religion they belong to. I was recently part of one such last rite of my good friend who passed away very young  leaving his wife and children. While I was sitting at the cemetery and witnessing the last prayer meeting, floods of thoughts were gushing through my mind reminding me the destiny of man. It is a scary thought but a hardcore reality. Visiting the house of grieving over the loss of the loved ones is one of the best inspirations one can get.  You are reminded of your frailty and your destiny. 

G K Chesterton powerful quote, “Meaninglessness does not come from being weary of pain. Meaninglessness comes from being weary of pleasure.”. While you suffer or witness people suffer it helps you to contemplate on life meaningfully.  "It is better to be in the house of mourning" is a proverb from Ecclesiastes 7:2 Bible, that encourages choosing reflection over shallow pleasure. It highlights that facing the reality of death, rather than ignoring it, provides wisdom, perspective, and a serious consideration of life’s brevity and meaning. 

The house of mourning (a funeral or place of grief) is superior to a house of feasting (party) because it forces us to acknowledge our mortality. Sorrow is described as better than laughter because it "sharpens your understanding" and corrects the heart, reminding us to live wisely rather than chasing empty pleasure. The phrase notes that "death is the destiny of everyone," and acknowledging this helps the living appreciate life and focus on what truly matters. Visiting the bereaved offers a time for deep thought, allowing people to live more intentionally, whereas constant merrymaking can lead to folly.  The passage does not promote being unhappy but rather emphasizes that the sobering perspective gained from experiencing loss is more valuable for character and wisdom than constant, fleeting fun.

Christians hope in Christ. Death is not the ultimate reality because Jesus made a strong statement which says, “…because I live, you will live also".  The history witnessing the nature of birth, life, death and the resurrection endorses that Jesus is not just an ordinary man He is a savior. Celebrating the resurrection of Jesus. Paul in His epistles in the Bible states, "O death, where is your sting?" (1 Corinthians 15:55 Bible) expressing victory over death through Jesus Christ. It signifies that for believers, death has lost its terror, power, and finality because sin (the "sting") has been conquered through resurrection. There can be many religious theories of life, but believing in Jesus can a give a transformative view. 

The Bible cites, “Our citizenship is in heaven, and we eagerly wait for a Savior from there, the Lord Jesus Christ.” You have a hope to live for eternity and most importantly to be part of the kingdom of God (Heaven) with Him for eternity. This is not a religious paradigm. The only qualification is to have our sins forgiven. Jesus came to forgive our sins and make us free from the bondage of sins and any wrongdoings and to live with Him for eternity. According to Romans 10:9-10 Bible, if you confess with your mouth that "Jesus is Lord" and believe in your heart that God raised Him from the dead, you will be saved. This act combines sincere inner conviction (heart) with public declaration (mouth), focusing on faith rather than earning salvation through works.

  

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Flash thoughts!

We all experience flippant thought, imaginations which are picturesque. Some are pleasing and enriching while others conjure up unpleasant memories. These sudden, gushing, and picturesque thoughts are known in psychology as spontaneous thoughts or involuntary mental imagery. They are a normal part of cognitive processing, where the brain generates random, unbidden, and often intense images—ranging from pleasant, creative daydreams to disturbing, unwanted memories.

Cognitive psychologists observe that the brain is constantly running in the background, making connections between smells, sounds, or emotions, and your memories. Some minds are more prone to fixating on thoughts, acting like a "hamster wheel" that repeats the same thought. It just doesn’t stop there, many experience sudden, unwanted, or "dirty" thoughts—along with unwanted, distressing memories—are a universal human experience often referred to in psychology as intrusive thoughts. According to research, approximately 93% of people report having at least one intrusive thought over a 3-month period. These thoughts, which can range from bizarre or a taboo to violent or sexual, often in direct conflict with a person’s values, character, and desires. Sometimes these thoughts are born of morbid curiosity. While driving along a winding mountain highway, suddenly we imagine what would happen if we jerked the wheel to the right. Other times, such thoughts arise from our sinful hearts. 

According to the “sticky mind” theory the brain often fixates on thoughts it deems unacceptable, causing them to repeat. High levels of stress, anxiety, or lack of sleep can increase the frequency of these thoughts, as the brain’s ability to suppress them is compromised. The positive suggestions are good to try but usually it is not a long-lasting solution. We are all tired at some point, and our mind is constantly easing it through alternative thoughts and experience. But this is not the end of the explanation. 

Our minds are a battleground. We often tend to fight spiritual wars where we are held captive by the evil one and our minds are under its control. Apostle Paul writes in the Bible, “We demolish…every proud thing that is raised up against the knowledge of God, and we take every thought captive to obey Christ.” This is only possible when you ask God for His help to fight any negative unwanted thoughts. Jesus was holy and immaculate.  When we worship Him and learn about Him our life changes to be like Him and seek what is right. Apostle Paul reminds us that it’s not enough to destroy false thinking—we have to form healthy imaginations too: “Brothers, whatever is true, whatever is honorable, whatever is just, whatever is pure, whatever is lovely, whatever is commendable, if there is any excellence, if there is anything worthy of praise, think about these things” (Bible). It’s also important to replace our negative reels with the truths God declares about us. We can echo back to Him gratitude for who He’s remade us to be in Christ. Your struggle with these negative flash thoughts will be won over for good.

 

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Invisible yet true!

 

There are many things in life that we don’t see exist yet believe. Some are obscure but we feel their effects. There are the abstracts like love, sympathy, kindness, of which we see the effects and experience it. Belief in God is similar. People worship deities either based on the stories that exist or based on the records of real powerful people who were seen as God.

We sort our troubles through our efforts and money. We have reserve funds and insurance policies to see us through difficult times that might arise. There is a pleasure in solving our problems and moving on. But there may be occasions when difficulty overwhelm us, and we drown as it were under that pressure. Seasons like those are rare. Its these occasions that reveal our frail human security, and we find ourselves exposed when all help is exhausted.

It’s in these moments of helplessness that we turn to our family religion, to the god as our last resort. We cling on to the words of religious scripture and visit our places of worship clinging to our God for dear life. We now want to connect with something we don’t see and hope for some supernatural miracle. If things work, we give credit to God and oblige our commitments in the form of offerings and gifts to the place or places of worship.

However, there is one God who said, “Blessed are those who have not seen and yet have believed.” (John 20:29 Bible). It is Jesus Christ. He existed on earth around 4 -6 BC and lived approximately till AD 30-33 fulfilling many prophecies that were made regarding a Messiah, the nature of His birth, death and resurrection 700-900 years before His existence. His resurrection made history and Christians during this month celebrated a unique event, the Easter. While He lived, He gave hope to people about life, life after death, i.e. eternity. Your faith in God will change the course of your life with hope and certainty. Jesus promised His Holy spirit to dwell in the heart of man which means you don’t have to talk to a figure made of Him or His photo. You just need to call on His name from where you are. He has the power to forgive our sins and liberate us from all guilt. He will dwell among you and bless you with an abundant life now and life forever to all those who believe in Him and His resurrected power. 

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When people commit and don't fulfill most of the time!

I am not sure how many people are confident to claim that they had fulfilled 100% of all their commitments they have made so far. To be honest, I cannot claim that myself. We all struggle in this area of fulfilling commitments which is universal. The root causes can be   combination of overcommitting, poor time management, unexpected life events, and the emotional fatigue that follows initial enthusiasm. For many there could be other reasons why they fail to keep commitments.

People say "yes" too often to please others either to be genuinely helpful or just pure ambitious. They maybe obsessed with self-gratification which is the act of satisfying one's own desires, impulses, or needs, often focused on achieving personal pleasures. Studies estimate that the average adult makes approximately 35,000 "remotely conscious" decisions daily, ranging from ordinary choices like food (226+ daily) to complex, significant decisions. Most decisions are minor (e.g., what to wear, checking a phone), but the cumulative effect consumes substantial mental energy. Our decision-making eventually leads to making commitments consciously or subconsciously. Some are intentional but some are to escape the situation we are in.

A person to whom we make the commitment waits eagerly for the same to be fulfilled but it’s never a guarantee. Imagine that someone has promised something to you but does not fulfill. Its irritating and disappointing. This becomes even more prominent when you want to finish with the commitment and move on. It can happen in personal or professional life.  After someone lets you down a couple of times, you’re less likely to trust them, right? Most of the time people commit and pretend to forget, when they are unwilling to fulfil. People often make commitments with the intention of being polite, avoiding conflict, or impressing someone in the moment, rather than with a firm intent to follow through. Saying "no" can be socially uncomfortable. Promising and later acting forgetful is sometimes seen as a "softer" exit than direct refusal.

The Bible emphasizes that it is better not to make a vow or promise than to make one and fail to fulfill it (Ecclesiastes 5:5 Bible). Reckless commitments are considered foolish and sinful, as God expects His children to keep their word, even when it is difficult, rather than making excuses for not following through. Uncommitted life can lead to the breakdown of family, and relationships. Unfilled commitments are the matter of the heart. Commitments stem from honesty and integrity which is not a mere good practice it reflects who you are as a person. Your life is the result of many choices and influences including your religious system. But true change of heart that leads to honesty and sincerity is the result of who you worship. You become who you worship. By this standard if you measure, Jesus is unique and God of the universe not only of His deeds and lifestyle but because He was raised from dead. He is not a story or an event but a God who transforms lives. When you learn more about Him and worship Him your life is changed forever. You become a someone who people long to be with. Your words will have meaning and your commitments become a fulfillment of promises. 

 

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Resurrection- The Game Changer of your Destiny!

The Greatest news  the world has ever heard: The TOMB is EMPTY!

Dear Friends, wishing you all a Happy Easter! Easter is not a mere festival; it is an event that shook the entire human history. Jesus the incarnation of God rose from the grave as He promised and He is the only one since. The Bible is also one of the best historical narratives which states His resurrection. Paul, a former atheist, after encountering Jesus followed Him and preached Jesus. He is the author of the book to the Corinthians and states in 1 Corinthians 15:3-6, “For I delivered to you first of all that which I also received: that Christ died for our sins according to the Scriptures, and that He was buried, and that He rose again the third day according to the Scriptures, and that He was seen by Cephas, then by the twelve.  After that He was seen by over five hundred brethren at once, of whom the greater part remain to the present, but some have fallen asleep.”

The resurrection of Jesus is recorded in the New Testament Gospels in the Bible - Matthew 28, Mark 16, Luke 24, John 20-21 and in the Book of Acts. However, the earliest written record of the resurrection is the creed in 1 Corinthians 15:3–8, written by Paul around AD 50–55, which scholars believe dates to within months of the event. You can do more in depth reading to understand the resurrection also through non-Christian sources as mentioned IN THIS LINK

There is an interesting fact about the tomb in which Jesus was buried. According to the Bible, Jesus was buried in a borrowed, new tomb owned by Joseph of Arimathea, a wealthy disciple who requested the body from Pilate. Key verses confirming this are Matthew 27:57-60, Luke 23:50-56, and John 19:38-42, note that the tomb was nearby, hewn from rock, and previously unused. The tomb, which was new and carved into rock, was used only temporarily—for a few days—because Jesus did not remain there, fulfilling the prophecy that He would be with the rich in His death. 

Joseph of Arimathea was a respected, wealthy council member (Sanhedrin) who secretly followed Jesus. He asked Pontius Pilate (Pontius Pilate was the Roman prefect (governor) of Judaea from 26–36 CE, best known for presiding over the trial of Jesus and sentencing Him to crucifixion), for Jesus’ body, ensuring a proper, honorable burial rather than leaving it for a mass grave.

Significance of "Borrowed": The tomb was not Jesus’ own, and it was used for a very brief period before the resurrection. Tradition holds that the tomb is within the Church of the Holy Sepulchre in Jerusalem.

Prophetic Fulfillment: It fulfilled Isaiah 53:9, which predicted that despite being crucified with criminals, the Messiah would be buried in a rich man's grave. The Book of Isaiah is a prophetic book which was written approximately 700 to 500 years before Jesus. While the prophet Isaiah lived and wrote in the 8th century BCE (c. 700s BC), modern scholars indicate the book was compiled in stages, with major sections written during the Babylonian exile (6th century BCE).

The Gospel in the Bible is not advice for religious improvement. It is the announcement that God saves sinners through the life, death, and resurrection of Jesus Christ. We can have eternal life. Jesus came and died to pay for our sins, making it possible to live eternally. His resurrection proved it and paved the way for all who believe. Acknowledge the fact you are a sinner, believe that He died and rose again for your sins, and you will be saved.  You may like to check my previous blog on  Resurrection Revolution .

 

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Bothered by guilt?

We suffer more by our guilt than the actual mistake or even the consequence of our mistake. Guilt is often considered a secondary emotion because it acts as a learned, defense, or reactive response—such as self-punishment or social conditioning—that covers up deeper primary emotions like fear, sadness, or inadequacy. While primary emotions are immediate, raw responses, secondary emotions like guilt, shame, or anger arise in reaction to them, often serving to mask vulnerable feelings or navigate social expectations.

Guilt often leads to obsessively revising the past, creating emotional turbulence far greater than the original mistake. Excessive guilt and shame are directly linked to higher rates of anxiety, depression, paranoia, and decreased self-esteem. Tim Challies puts it so beautifully in his article ‘The Guilt and The Shame’, “We need to begin by distinguishing between guilt and shame. Here is how I differentiate between them: Guilt is the objective reality that I have committed an offense or a crime; shame is the subjective experience of feeling humiliation or distress because of what I have done. God has made us in such a way that sin incurs guilt and guilt generates shame. But there is a catch and a caution: Guilt and shame come in helpful forms and in paralyzingly unhelpful forms. Guilt and shame can be a good gift of God or a curse of Satan.”

Distinguishing between guilt and shame is important in our discussion of sin and hope. Guilt is being held accountable for poor decisions and actions. Shame is the dreadful, piercing, crippling response to our actions. You will find ample suggestions out there that will teach you how to deal with guilt and live a guilt free life. Most of the suggestions are practices, therapies and mind rehearsals telling you that it’s ok to make mistakes because you are only human. Sometimes it can prompt you to rationalize the mistake and smother the guilt. But it doesn’t work that way. Guilt will continue to remind you every now and then about the act you feel bad about. And the symptoms of guilt can be psychological, emotional, physiological but most importantly spiritual. 

Physical symptoms of guilt often manifest through an activated autonomic nervous system, causing stress-related issues like tension headaches, muscle tension, stomach aches, nausea, and fatigue. The emotional symptoms can be deep remorse, shame, sadness, anxiety, and feelings of inadequacy. And the spiritual symptoms lead to feeling spiritually weighed down, tired, or sluggish, often described as carrying a burden. You can lead a guilt-free life by seeking forgiveness from the person against whom the act is done and confessing your sin to God because only Jesus Christ  has the power to forgive the sins of mankind. Human or religious atonement doesn’t work as it’s man’s invention to please God. 

There are so many occasions where Jesus healed someone and at the foremost, He forgave the sins of the person by saying “Your sins have been forgiven, go in peace.” and then healed the sickness. The priests of the synagogues in Jesus’ time were infuriated and questioned how He, Jesus can forgive the sins of people. In the olden times the book of Old Testament cites that they had offered different sacrifices for the atonement of the sin. They failed to realise that Jesus was son of God who came to earth to offer forgiveness from all sins that has the power to wipe out the guilt that comes along with it. You don’t have to suffer from guilt anymore. Jesus is God because only Jesus in the entire human history who was guiltless of any sins. He was wrongly accused, crucified and He victoriously rose from the dead. Over 2.3 billion people from all around the world will be observing Good Friday this week and acknowledge His sacrifice on the cross of Calvary and then celebrate the greatest event, Easter the resurrection day. Whatever burden and load you are carrying you can unload it by confessing your sins to Jesus from where you are and be set free. Learn to know more about Christ the Saviour, read the Bible in your preferred language and find the abundant life He has promised. 

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The Danger of Unpredictability!

Have you heard people say this, “he/she is so unpredictable” when they are describing someone? One of the delights, and frustrations, of dealing with people whether in business or in everyday life is that you can never tell what they are going to do next. If you must stop for a moment and make a list of such people, I am sure you would come up with a long list. However, your name would be missing. Whenever we conclude about someone, we usually exclude ourselves from the paradigm. It is always someone else other than us. We all can be unpredictable. 

Warwick business school puts their observation in this manner, “People are unpredictable due to a complex, chaotic interaction of internal and external factors, including ever-shifting emotional states, subconscious cognitive "noise" and reactions to changing environments. Human behavior is rarely consistent because individuals constantly adapt to new information, personal motivations, and environmental stimuli.”

Some argue that human actions are largely predictable due to inherent psychological and social patterns, while others emphasize the chaotic and spontaneous nature of human decisions. In short, human behaviour is noisy, even when it shouldn’t be. Indeed, high levels of noisiness seem to be built into the way our minds work. Let me list out few psychological reasons of why people are so unpredictable:

"Noise" in the Mind: Psychologists found that people often give different answers to the same questions in a short period. This suggests a natural, built-in "noise" or inconsistency in human decision-making.

Unconscious Choices (Autopilot): People are not always aware of their own motivations and may act on autopilot, driven by, for example, fear or desire, rather than logical, consistent, or pre-planned reasoning.

Ego and Self-Interest: Behaviors can change based on a desire for control, personal benefit, or because of ego-driven responses to social interactions.

Besides, the most important reasons are usually ignored. Here are few:

Inherent Brokenness: The Bible (Romans 7:19–20 Bible) highlights the internal conflict where people often do the evil they do not want to do and fail to do the good, they desire. This internal battle makes actions inconsistent and unpredictable.

A "Double-Minded" Nature:  The Bible (James 1:8 Bible) states that a "double-minded man is unstable in all his ways." This refers to someone divided between faith and doubt, or between God's will and worldly desires.

The "Heart" is Deceitful: The Bible states in Jeremiah 17:9 notes that the human heart is deceitful above all things, leading to unpredictable, selfish, or irrational behavior.

Human conditions are infested with sinful nature. Sin distorts the condition of human heart. The moment we take our eyes from Christ; we focus on satisfying our ego. The carnal nature takes different form to gratify the flesh. The person thereafter does everything to ensure that he/she is the center of attraction and is always in control. Mere spiritual habits cannot impact the state of your heart or mind. A conscious effort towards repentance and including Christ in every spectrum in the day-to-day activities of our life can impact stability and transformative behavior. 

Dealing with an unpredictable person from a biblical perspective involves balancing the call to love and extend grace with the wisdom of setting boundaries and guarding one's own heart. The Bible advises maintaining peace while not becoming a "doormat" to destructive behavior. Pray for the people or situation which is unpredictable. Do not forget God listens to prayers and provide you with all help. Some approaches can help; here are few: 

"Soft Answer" approach: The book of Proverbs in the Bible says, "A gentle answer turns away wrath, but a harsh word stirs up anger." Avoid fighting fire with fire; instead, respond with calm.

Control your reactions: You cannot control their actions, but you can control your response. “Rule your spirit, which is more important than taking a city”. (Proverbs 16:32 Bible).

Don't try to win: With unpredictable or irrational people, trying to win the argument usually backfires. Sometimes, the wisest move is to disengage and walk away (Proverbs 14:7 Bible).

Ask Jesus, the resurrected Savior for wisdom to handle relationships and invite Him into your heart if you are struggling with unpredictability.  

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