Missing someone is usually associated with having some kind of connection with that person. The connection can be close or distant, living or dead. The emotion associated with missing someone comes from a longing for their presence in your life, not necessarily from the familiarity of a voice or touch. From a spiritual perspective, missing someone you’ve never met can be seen as an expression of the soul’s longing for connection and love. This longing is not limited to physical connection or interaction, but is rooted in a deeper, spiritual dimension of our being.
The heart longs always, including for non-living things. Emotions are powerful and yearns to establish a connection. But most of the time the human connections are limited and wears off soon. However, people continue to miss whom their heart chooses to reciprocate love. Children for example, after reading the fairy tales or watching a cartoon movie wish to meet their favorite character, in person. But then, while they grow, they realize the absurdity of imagining fictional characters as a true person. What we miss can truly matter if whom we miss happens to be a truly important and integral part of human life.
When it comes to religion, we often don’t miss gods, because we have carved idols or an image in our homes to worship. People like to use religious stories and character to celebrate festivals. Rituals and religious practices are in abundance. Most of the god characters are pompous, which people flaunt about. When it comes to power, we like to celebrate but when it comes to love we long to surrender.
Augustine writes in his Confessions, “You have made us for yourself, O Lord, and our hearts are restless until they rest in You.” This is perhaps one of Augustine's most often quoted phrase which captures something that resonates deep within the human person. Restlessness is that desire to be filled and fulfilled. For this to happen we need a true, living God with whom we can have a relationship. Allow me to introduce Jesus to you.
An incident from the Bible refers to the disciples of Jesus who were witnessing His amazing miracles, healing people from chronic illness and raising people from dead. Philip, one of Jesus' disciples, asked, "Lord, show us the Father, and that will be enough for us." Jesus responded by saying, "Anyone who has seen me has seen the Father". The disciples were longing to see God and to establish a relationship with God the father. Probably because Jesus claimed “I am the way, the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father except through Me.”. Only after Jesus died and resurrected exactly the way He said, people truly believed taking the good news around the world. They were martyred for their faith. Whether you know Jesus or yet to know Him, this longing and desire to know something which is transcendental will leave you restless until you know the God who is full of love and compassion assuring hope for your life here and for eternity. You cannot replace the longing with anything else. You will continue to miss Him because Jesus is the Lord of your heart and life.
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