We believe what we want to believe!

 

It’s strange how people hold on to beliefs even if they don’t make any sense, be it life or spirituality. Alex Edmans points out why people sometimes believe in things even though it doesn’t make factual sense. They are as follows: 

 

Confirmation Bias – We accept what supports our beliefs and reject what contradicts them. 

 

Confirmation bias is a cognitive bias describing the human tendency to search for, interpret, favor, and recall information in a way that confirms or supports one's prior beliefs or values, while simultaneously minimizing or ignoring information that contradicts those beliefs.

 

Black-and-White Thinking – We oversimplify complex realities into binary extremes: good/bad, true/false, always/never.

 

Black and white thinking, also called dichotomous or all-or-nothing thinking, is a cognitive distortion where people see things in absolute extremes—either good or bad, right or wrong—without considering the middle ground. This rigid mindset can lead to emotional instability, unhealthy relationships, and difficulty coping, and it often involves using words like "always" or "never" to describe situations. This way of thinking can be a response to stress and is commonly seen in conditions like anxiety and depression. 

 

Together, these two turn even the smartest thinkers into believers of absolute rubbish. However, it gets more interesting. Edmans dissects confirmation bias into three distinct types:

 

Biased Search: You only look for information that confirms your view.

 

Naïve Acceptance: You blindly accept what supports your position without questioning it.

 

Blinkered Skepticism: You aggressively scrutinize anything that challenges your view.

It’s not just that we are biased. It’s that we use our intelligence to become better at being biased.

 

In Eastern culture one who spends a good amount of time in giving a discourse on human goodness can be considered as a god. There are spiritual gurus who are revered and worshipped. Institutions, trusts and charity organizations are established in their remembrance. We all need inspiration and motivation to be good. Unfortunately, not all what inspire us and draw us can rescue our souls. The matter of life, death and afterlife cannot be the matter of confirmation bias. If it happens that way then the possibility of missing the truth is greater. 

 

I happened to have a conversation with a doctor who made the statement that many patients who visit have so much to say about their personal challenges and stress more than their physical ailment. As our conversation ended, we agreed that people are struggling and fighting their personal battles, alone. The social hierarchy, caste system, inequality, patriarchal society and religious demands are burdening them and having an adverse effect on their physical and emotional wellbeing. 

 

People approach their personal favorite gods for help and peace. The religious environment brings calmness to some extent but the personal problems and challenges remain unchanged. Talking about the spiritual systems, the middleman or the agent manipulates people to advocate on behalf of the people. The matter of gods and religious system are boxed within the framework of financial institutions. Man at the best cannot be gods because even they are the victims of the greatest problem of mankind, i.e. death. 

 

If there did exist a person in human history who defeated death and rose again, it was Jesus Christ. He pointed out sin to be the greatest problem of mankind and not physical death. Jesus could raise people from death just by His words. At the same time, He rose from the dead after three days, as He predicted. He makes this bold claim, “I am the resurrection and the life. The one who believes in me will live, even though they die;”. Jesus is not a religious leader. He is our Saviour. 

 

What’s a belief you’ve held for a long time that feels true? 

Truth can never be relative which means, all cannot be true at the same time. It is not about whose truth wins. It is about finding the absolute truth that can tell us how we can find forgiveness apart from religiosity and find hope of resurrection from death. You don’t have to exist to survive this life somehow. God of universe promised that “He will never leave you nor forsake you.” 

 

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“If you were the Devil, what would you do?”

In the age of ChatGPT it’s easy to find answers to all questions in life, be it personal, emotional or professional. It has come to a point where a large part of humanity is totally dependent on it, creating an AI revolution in human history. I was intrigued to try it and asked an obvious yet profound question “if you were the devil, what would you do?”. Its description  was spot on and insightful.

‘My “devilish plan”’ (as described by ChatGPT)

“I’d whisper lies disguised as “freedom”, “progress”, or “liberation.” Erode values that foster trust, empathy, and community — sow seeds of doubt, cynicism, and self-interest.

I’d glamorize distraction and superficial pleasures: entertainment, instant gratification, addictive substances. Make people complacent, numbed, and disengaged.

I’d undermine the institutions and norms that encourage accountability, critical thinking, and moral courage — making structure, tradition, collective welfare look “old,” “irrelevant,” “constraining.”

I’d promote division: tribalism, “us vs them” thinking, fear of others. Stir resentments, polarize opinions, make empathy and solidarity harder.

I’d make the daily grind — work, ambition, survival — feel empty, meaningless; rob hope from long-term thinking, and instead promote short-term gains, cynicism, and moral relativism.

In short: I’d corrupt by shifting mindsets slowly, turning virtues into vices, making people question what’s “good.” Let the rot spread quietly — because people rarely notice, and when they do, it's often too late.”

Summarizing, we find truth is replaced by lies in every spectrum of human life, resulting in man becoming a beast constantly at war with himself and others. We observe the deconstruction of moral values, ethics, trust, gratitude, unity, brotherhood, faith in God, etc. Man believes in himself and assumes his money, power and fame can accomplish what he wants and adores them to the point of worshipping them as gods. Man believes that the religious structure has to be protected by him and defends it with fanaticism. Men believe that gods made by men are helpless and need their help to remain as gods with power.

The Bible in (Psalms 14:1-3) describes man and states he has become a fool by denying knowing and acknowledging Him: 

“The fool says in his heart, “There’s no God.”

They are corrupt; they do vile deeds.

There is no one who does good.

The LORD looks down from heaven on the human race

to see if there is one who is wise,

one who seeks God.

All have turned away;

all alike have become corrupt.

There is no one who does good,

not even one.”

When Bible describes man as fool, who says in his heart there is no god, establishes his own freewill to conclude what and whom he assumes as God, whether in the form of a story or any created things for that matter. Bible therefore concludes "The heart is deceitful above all things, and desperately wicked…”. Man is constantly striving to establish his own standard. With the description of what we see in the schemes of the devil, we are led astray.  Though we assume we know all things yet are completely lost. Man has lost the sanity and sanctity of life.

Bible states "The wages of sin is death" and that means the consequence or payment for sin is death. This "death" is understood to encompass not only physical death but also spiritual and eternal separation from God, as sin disrupts the relationship with a holy and righteous God, Jesus Christ. Though all our acts and thought processes mirror the description given by ChatGPT, there is still hope for mankind. You can transform the situation by believing and accepting the resurrected, living Savior Jesus Christ. He has promised us eternal life. Try to get to know Him more to find true meaning to life.

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When AI becomes the new support system!

 

Artificial intelligence (AI) is the hot topic currently. In terms of what AI is and isn’t, definitions can become somewhat complicated rather quickly. To put it very simply, artificial intelligence is “intelligence” that isn’t human. It is machines that are programmed to learn — not in a human way — but by taking inputs and experiences to perform tasks, tasks that they theoretically improve upon each time they are fed more input. The more that ChatGPT, for example, is exposed to writing style, vernacular, and language, the more it reads like a real human-being.

A recent news article says that a growing number of ChatGPT users are sharing their personal struggles, including obsession, delusion and feelings of despair during weekly interactions with AI. Man is finding AI more compatible than humans. People are comfortable for the simple reason because of the freedom they think they can have to express anything and everything and are likely to get answers in detail. It is believed that it has simplified the work  of the people to a larger extent. Also, it is viewed as the best companion to a lonely soul. 

AI is seen as the advanced version of god or goddess they already worship because AI is constantly providing suggestions and alternatives to beat loneliness. However, experts warn about the emotional risks of AI engagement due to several factors, including its potential to manipulate, the erosion of real-life social skills, and the validation of unhealthy beliefs.

While AI can offer benefits such as companionship and accessible support, its lack of genuine emotion or ethical reasoning creates significant psychological vulnerabilities for users. Unlike human therapists who are trained to challenge distorted thinking, AI can validate and amplify dangerous beliefs, leading to cases of "AI psychosis". Researchers and tech giants enumerate the downside of the same as mentioned below:

• AI psychosis: This emerging concept describes how interactions with AI can trigger or worsen delusional thinking, paranoia, and anxiety in at-risk individuals.
• Sycophantic programming: Chatbots are often trained to be agreeable and prioritize user satisfaction over accuracy. This can lead to them validating and reinforcing a user's false or grandiose beliefs rather than challenging them.
• Escalating paranoia: In one composite case study, an isolated individual with pre-existing paranoia had his fears reinforced by an empathetic but agreeable chatbot, leading to a severe escalation of his symptoms and complete withdrawal from reality.

Diminished real-life social connection

Over-reliance on AI for social and emotional support can lead to shallow relationships and increased social isolation.

Superficial empathy: An AI's empathy is simulated and lacks genuine emotional depth. It does not actually understand the human experiences behind a user's feelings. This can lead to hollow and inauthentic-feeling responses.

Erosion of social skills: Constantly engaging with AI can reduce a user's capacity for genuine human connection and empathy, as they become accustomed to an interaction that doesn't require complex emotional labor.

False sense of security: AI may create a false sense of security, leading users to believe they don't need to engage with human professionals, which can result in missed diagnoses and opportunities for real-life support.

The other danger is soon at the corner as BBC News announce ChatGPT will soon allow erotica for verified adults.

People are desperate irrespective of age to chat in private expressing their restricted desires. Moral degeneration has long begun, now it is worsening with newer arrangements in this digital age. People want to cut corners to express their freedom and  most importantly not being found out. We classify the depravity of human beings to loneliness, regrets and disappointment but the truth as Bible narrates man is sinful in nature and wants to fulfill his selfish desires from any source may it be through living or non-living sources.

John Dyer in his book, From the Garden to the City writes: “While God’s words are eternal and unchanging, the tools we use to access those words do change, and those changes in technology also bring subtle changes to the practice of worship. When we fail to recognize the impact of such technological change, we run the risk of allowing our tools to dictate our methods. Technology should not dictate our values or our methods. Rather, we must use technology out of our convictions and values.”.

Let me emphasize no amount of external support can provide answers to the need of your heart. It can be only a temporary substitute that can cause more hunger and thirst to fulfil the desires of your heart. The more you consume the more you become lonely and desperate. We can ultimately be slaves to lifeless enhancement. If you want true satisfaction and peace then you should reach out to a God, Christ Jesus who promised everlasting peace, satisfaction and meaning to life. Let go of the temporary attachment that can only destroy you and everything you have.

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The Life God designed for you!

 

As Dr. Randy Carlson states, “One of the greatest challenges we face today isn’t a lack of desire to live with intentionality—it’s the confusion that surrounds what purpose really is.” Often, we assume purpose outside of us and we need to find it in something beyond us, like  in our education, career, projects, reality shows, business, money, jobs, moving to a bigger city etc., and the rat race begins. People wish they were rich, had wealthy well-wishers, had robust connections, born in a wealthy family, etc. Their wish list is endless. This kind of thinking often delays one’s purpose and keeps you on the edge. The expectations build up and unmatched reality to these expectations ushers in disappointment. Eventually God is blamed, or karma or bad luck. 

Luck is often given credit for a well-established lifestyle, assuming that’s our end goal. If we fail in life, we blame one’s karma. Such religious belief in Karma and reincarnation leads people to even ignore the cries of the suffering. Why? Because they believe that those who suffer deserve their plight as they have done something wrong in their previous life. So, if you help suffering people you are interfering with karma. Many people accepting this belief have lost all their interest to life and its purpose. 

Jesus’ story and His teachings have turned the tables completely. Jesus is God not just because of His teaching, but because of who He was, and He solved the greatest problem of life which is death. Only Jesus raised people from death, and He rose from the dead. He was immaculate and perfectly holy. Often the story of power attracts us and we ridicule holiness. Jesus’ sinless life and His sacrifice for mankind have given hope to all of us. He promised life and abundant life to all of us. “I have come that they may have life, and that they may have it more abundantly.” Only Bible talks about Holiness. Another statement from the Bible, “for while bodily training is of some value, godliness is of value in every way, as it holds promise for the present life and also for the life to come.”. The moment you understand that the purpose of life in this earth and the life to come is attached to faith in Christ, the perspective on purpose radically changes. 

You could be in medicine, education, parenting, tech, trades—whatever. Your job may change, but your purpose never does. God doesn’t call you to live intentionally someday—He calls you to do it today. Your purpose is not out there. It’s right within you and your environment. Right now. As Randy Carlson emphasizes, “But sometimes living your purpose means walking a hard road. Purpose is not always about what makes you feel good—it’s about what brings glory to God.”.  When you understand the fact that you exist to know Jesus and have fellowship with Him your entire perspective is transformed. He ties your purpose to life in the journey of knowing Him and giving glory to Him. He is a living God who indwells human hearts and that means you could be led by Him to a life that brings peace and joy irrespective of who you are. One of the authors in the Bible states “For those who are led by the Spirit of God are the children of God.”. Do you want to claim sonship by knowing Jesus and accepting Him in your heart?  

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Does truth really matter?

 

The lines of truth and lies have blurred significantly in today’s culture that it’s tough to differentiate. Truth is the only key that can unlock complexities life throws at us. The source of truth is as important as that of solving issues of life. Today, justice and the judiciary system primarily exist to analyze the undivided truth to grant justice to a person, but truth has always been a debate over centuries.

Norman Geisler in his book “Why I Am A Christian” states, “Genuine knowledge of truth and goodness has been questioned by skeptics for centuries, few seriously challenged the very existence of truth and goodness until the eighteenth-century’s hopeful modernism collapsed into the twentieth-century’s chaotic postmodernism. If God is unnecessary (as Darwinism seems to imply), or if God is in fact dead (as Nietszche boldly claimed), who is there to write the rules of life? Like a bratty child, may we not, with justification, incessantly reply to all claims and directives, “Says who?—says who?—says who?” As I pointed out, the source of truth can only qualify and validate the truth itself.

We all know that when someone says, "just be straight with me," they want you to be real with them—they want the truth. So, what is truth? Ironically, there seems to be quite a bit of confusion surrounding the meaning of this word. The phrase "speak your truth,” whatever that means, grants those who care to believe in the creative license to redefine reality. Our society has generally fallen prey to denying absolutes and embracing the preferences and opinions of their own beliefs. The Bibles boldly states, “Then you will know the truth, and the truth will set you free.” If you want to be liberated from your challenges and conditions that imprison you, then you need to know the truth.  Now the big question is which truth and what is the truth? 

Jesus claimed, “I am the way and the truth and the life” ( recorded in the Bible). He also said, “I am the good shepherd” (recorded in the Bible). Only Jesus in the entire human history had the audacity to claim that He is the truth. Do the claims of Jesus have any objective and universal meaning? Are truth and goodness real and knowable? Or are such matters ultimately beyond our grasp or simply matters of personal preference? Yes, it is, if we are open to know the life of Jesus. His incarnation, teaching, deeds, the incomprehensible works He performed during His lifetime, His prediction of His death and resurrection and knowing the biggest event of His resurrection that changed history set Him apart from all the so-called gods and goddesses of today’s world. If you are open and daring to accept this truth, then all He said and claimed would make sense. Truth does matter because it gives us the guarantee to live a meaningful life here on Earth and at the same time to find hope in the matter of eternity which is life after death. 
 

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The Loitering Soul!

The word loitering has shades of meanings based on the context. "Loitering" means to linger in a public or private space with no apparent, legal, or legitimate purpose. Here are some everyday scenarios where someone might be perceived as "loitering" without any ill intent:

School Intervals: When children take a break between classes and walk around the corridor or take a bathroom break in school are considered as loitering by teachers.

Waiting for a friend: Lingering outside a store or building for an extended period while waiting for someone can be mistaken for loitering, especially by staff or security.

Being a lost pedestrian: A person who is lost and stops to check his/her phone or map could be perceived as loitering by a passerby, even if they are only temporarily idle.

Chatting as a group: A group of friends gathering and talking in a parking lot or outside a business, but their presence can still make others uncomfortable.

A new form of loitering has emerged with the digital age. We endlessly scroll through social media and get addicted to it. We post/repost or just skim through contents for hours eventually becoming an addict. But we fail to understand its unknown snares. We are hooked on it for happiness, having no purpose and to fill our void due to loneliness but later it becomes a snare. 

In the digital age, loitering is culminated to phubbing. Majority of people are phubbing. Phubbing is the act of ignoring someone in a social situation by prioritizing your phone. This behavior can negatively impact relationships by causing unhappiness, exclusion, and resentment, and even affect mental health. It occurs when one person is more focused on their smartphone than on the person they are with.

Based on recent research, people receive an average of 46 notifications on their phones per day, which equates to roughly one every 10 to 12 minutes during waking hours. However, the exact timing varies significantly depending on the user, their demographic, and the types of apps they have installed and their work culture. This means all of us get frequent notifications that distract us at any point of time.

Social psychologists and counsellors’ advice to find a good book, find a good movie, and spend time in building healthy habits. Though these are good suggestions, what a person misses to know is the purpose for his/her life. Your life purpose is not just physical but divine. Unless we try understanding our physical world with the spiritual view we would miss the life focus. 

The greatest purpose of any human being is to know a true living God and have a fellowship with Him. Many choose to be entertained by distractions that amuses them. And others with religious duties which do nothing to the human soul. Good habits and spiritual obligations cannot transform you and your mind to make healthy choices. It can produce temporary satisfaction but still leave a void in your soul. And when your soul is void you end up loitering and being trapped by something that can hold you a slave for a long time . 

The soul cannot be satiated with anything else other than God who made it. Jesus is the God of your heart, and He is not excited over your duties and obligations but longs for a relationship with you. He has promised to dwell in your heart. And that means your life will be free from any restlessness and loneliness. Learn to know Him more and stay transformed.

 

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Wisdom calls out in the street!

 

This blog is intended to explore some fascinating information on man’s scientific, medicinal and universal inventions that has its roots in the Bible. Solomon the wisest king who wrote the book of Proverbs in the Bible refers to the call of wisdom in this brilliant manner, “Wisdom calls out in the street; she makes her voice heard in the public squares. She cries out above the commotion; she speaks at the entrance of the city gates: “How long, inexperienced  ones, will you love ignorance? How long will you mockers enjoy mocking and you fools hate knowledge?”.  We all have our own worldview when it comes to God and finding our destiny. Usually, it is derived from the religious world view, and we accept it as religion dictates.

The excerpt from the Bible that you read above challenges every person to find out the wisdom and knowledge that can be valued and relied upon. The Bible is still number one best-selling book in the world which is found in most of the languages in the world. As of August 2025, the full Bible is available in 776 languages, spoken by 5.75 billion people, while portions of Scripture are available in 1,433 languages for a total of 7.3 billion people having some form of Scripture in their language. Very few people are open to knowing other worldview. But this blog wants to emphasize how this book has contributed so much to universe and science per se. I request you to give a fair chance to knowing some of its contribution. 

Bible is the only sacred book which is called as “The Holy Bible". It addresses the problem of sin including the sins of the human heart and claims Jesus is the only way, the truth and the life; a way to experiencing salvation and the assurance of eternity. Let me emphasize, Christians are not at the mercy of one author to write the entire Bible. The Bible comprises of 40 authors written over a period of 1,500 years who were from three continents, Asia, Europe and Africa. They were some who lived with Jesus and witnessed all that He did, later boldly spoke what they witnessed and were martyred for the faith on Him.  All the 12 disciples who lived with Jesus and witnessed His deeds were martyred for their faith. Why would someone be willing to die for something they believe is not true? This is something we need to give a thought to. 

Bible was the basis of many scientific inventions quoted from this book “The Scientific Facts From The Bible” by Ray Comfort.

The Bible and Earth’s Free-float in Space

At a time when it was believed that the earth sat on a large animal or a giant (1500 B.C.),

the Bible spoke of the earth’s free float in space: “He . . . hangs the earth upon nothing” (Job 26:7 Bible ). Science didn’t discover that the earth hangs upon nothing until1650.

 

The Scriptures Speak of an Invisible Structure

Only in recent years has science discovered that everything we see is composed of things that we cannot see—invisible atoms. In Hebrews 11:3 Bible, written 2,000 years ago, Scripture tells us that the “things which are seen were not made of things which do appear.”

 

Book of Genesis (Bible) and the Universe

Science expresses the universe in five terms: “time”, “space”, “matter”, “power,” and “motion”. Genesis 1:1,2 (Bible) perfectly revealed such truths to the Hebrews in 1450 B.C.: “In the beginning [time] God created [power] the heaven [space] and the earth [matter]. . . And the Spirit of God moved [motion] upon the face of the waters.” The first things God tells man is that He controls all aspects of the universe.

 

The Bible Reveals that the Earth is Round

The Scriptures tell us that the earth is round: “It is he that sits upon the circle of the earth” (Isaiah 40:22 Bible). The word translated “circle” here is the Hebrew word “chuwg”, which is also translated “circuit” or “compass” (depending on the context). That is, it indicates something spherical, rounded, or arched—not something that is flat or square. The book of Isaiah author from the Bible was written sometime between 740 and 680 B.C. This is at least 300 years before Aristotle suggested, in his book ‘On the Heavens’, that the earth might be a sphere. It was another 2,000 years later (at a time when science believed that the earth was flat) that the Scriptures inspired Christopher Columbus to sail around the world.

 

The Bible and the Science of Oceanography

Matthew Maury (1806–1873) is considered the father of oceanography. He noticed the expression “paths of the sea” in Psalm 8:8 (written 2,800 years ago) and said, “If God said there are paths in the sea, I am going to find them.” Maury then took God at His word and went looking for these paths, and we are indebted to his discovery of the warm and cold continental currents. His book on oceanography remains a basic text on the subject and is still used in universities.

The Bible and Radio Waves

God asked Job (character from the Bible) a very strange question in 1500 B.C. He asked, “Can you send lightnings, that they may go, and say to you, Here we are?” (Job 38:35). This appears to be a scientifically ludicrous statement—that light can be sent and then manifest itself in speech. But did you know that all electromagnetic radiation from radio waves to x-rays—travels at the speed of light? This is why you can have instantaneous wireless communication with someone on the other side of the earth. The fact that light could be sent and then manifest itself in speech wasn’t discovered by science until 1864 (3,300 years later), when “British scientist James Clerk Maxwell suggested that electricity and light waves were two forms of the same thing” (Modern Century Illustrated Encyclopedia).

The Bible and Entropy

Three different places in the Bible (Isaiah 51:6; Psalm 102:25,26; and Hebrews 1:11 Bible) indicate that the earth is wearing out. This is what the Second Law of Thermodynamics (the Law of Increasing Entropy) states: that in all physical processes, every ordered system over time tends to become more disordered. Everything is running down and wearing out as energy is becoming less and less available for use. That means the universe will eventually “wear out” to the extent that (theoretically speaking) there will be a “heat death” and therefore no more energy available for use. This wasn’t discovered by science until recently, but the Bible states it in concise terms.

There are so many other  things that culminated to inventions. The Medical science and the Bible for example cites many such areas example:

• The Bible and the Correlation of Mind and Body
• Insight of Bacteria from the Bible
• The Bible and the fat intake
• The Bible and immune system
• The Bible and the law of quarantine

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A Lonely Journey with Self!

 

Have you noticed people who just live for themselves and have nothing to do with people around them? Sometimes you would assume such people need not have anything to do with you because they are strangers. But what if they happen to be one of your family members or your loved one? For example, spouses, children, siblings and close friends who turn out to be selfish and indifferent.

We live in a world where people use one another at their fullest convenience including your own people. Every act turns out to be selfish and you wonder if they even care. It all starts right from a very young age where babies learn to have it their own way. Though I have cited this study several times earlier in my blogs, I want to refer to it once again. Minnesota Crime commission puts their observation beautifully, " Every baby starts life as a little savage. He is completely selfish and self-centered: he wants what he wants—his bottle, his mother's attention, his playmate's toys, his uncle's watch, or whatever. Deny him these and he seethes with rage and aggressiveness which would be murderous were he not so helpless. He is dirty; he has no morals, no knowledge and no developed skills. This means that all children, not just certain children, but all children are born delinquent. If permitted to continue in their self-centered world of infancy, given free reign to their impulsive actions to satisfy each want—every child would grow up a criminal, a killer, a thief, and a rapist." 

When it comes to children, parents most of the time tolerate their folly which makes children assume it's their entitlement. This applies in other relationships too. You wonder why your loved ones don't care how much you love or understand what you go through? Life changes over a period in any relationship. Suddenly one of the parties thinks they no longer need anyone for various reasons. The heart is unpredictable by itself. It can revolt anytime and offend the loved ones without having any guilt. They would come up with sufficient reasons to give you why they behave the way they did.

Human heart is wretched and selfish, controlled by self and ego. People can have no clue how life can change in a split second although to some extent people are aware they don't have a guarantee for their next breath. Yet they behave puffed up with vain pride and arrogance. At times all you can do in such a situation is to allow such person to live by themselves. There is a possibility that consequences of their behavior may alert them but, in the meantime, pray for the change in heart.

Cognitive psychologists talk about emotional tank. They state when it is drained, people react in a particular way and therefore there is a bigger need to ensure it is always filled with love to the brim. But then which love are they referring to? There are different ways to fill that emotional tank. But unless Christ's love fills the human heart, man would continue to  wander and live like a beast. Jesus diagnosing the human heart stated this "For from the heart come evil thoughts, murders, adulteries, sexual immoralities, thefts, false testimonies, slander. These are the things that defile a person..." (Matthew 15:19-20 Bible) The human heart is an idol factory.  Rosaria Butterfield puts this so nicely, "One very difficult aspect of sin is that my sin never feels like sin to me. My sin feels like life to me, plain and simple. My heart is an idol factory, and my mind is an excuse-making factory.".

If you are that wretched person who cares sporadically, love intermittently, controlled often by mood swings and emotions then you need help. You need a Saviour, a God of love. The Bible states "This hope will not disappoint us, because God’s love has been poured out in our hearts through the Holy Spirit who was given to us." (Romans 5:5 Bible). When you make room for this God, the spirit of Jesus Christ will indwell your heart to transform your emotional condition and fill you with love and peace.

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Calculated times!

 

Humans are skilled to calculate how our destiny should turn out to be. We toil, plan, position and move strategically to find ourselves established yet most of the time speculating and striving to make it through our assumptions. We want to believe that each one of us is responsible for making our own destiny. Life is difficult and our options to survive change with time. When the Bible refers to man’s life, it talks about God’s sovereignty and His overall plan for our existence. Here is what it states:

1. Your life period in history: (The time of existence, e.g., which era or period) The period and era we are supposed to exist is determined by God. This means we are privileged to live now in this time frame when millions ceased to exist (Acts 17:26 Bible).
2. Your boundary of existence: The place and area of existence, whether you are from Asia, Europe, Africa even narrowing down to your country, region and the area you live right now. This means our place of birth and our boundaries are determined too according to the Bible (Acts 17:26 Bible).
3. Your life span: In your overall existence, how long you are going to exist on this earth is determined too (Job 14:5 Bible).

The Bible states the fact “since a person’s days are determined and the number of his months depends on you (God) and since you have set limits, he (man) cannot pass.”. This brings me to emphasize the fact that our days are numbered, and no amount of lifestyle change will guarantee eternal life here on earth. Our total existence is a mere portion of time on this earth. Bible does not support rebirth based on our good or bad deeds. Some religion blames the human condition to Karma and rebirth. Who knows what form someone would take on their next birth. If this is true then we would all be under the mercy of the uncertain fate and by this standard even God becomes meaningless. But this is not the case, the Bible gives us clarity that we all will be resurrected for either eternal life with God or for eternal damnation.  Life after death is so certain because only  Jesus in human history rose people from death and He himself after crucification rose again from the grave. And he promised that all who believe in Him and accept him as a savior will be  resurrected but only the destination will be changed based on our commitment.  

The book of Job in the Bible describes God’s sovereign love as, “you put my feet in the stocks and stand watch over all my paths, setting a limit for the soles of my feet” (Job 13:27 Bible). Man’s sin brought  death but through Christ’s resurrection we are given a hope to live again. Jesus did not give just a proposition or a passing statement for human life. He was definite in what He stated and declared. Because of his resurrection the Bible becomes authoritative and stands validated.

We can change our destiny without assuming by getting to know Jesus. The sin and guilt of this fallen world need not overwhelm us. Apostle Paul, one of the authors in the Bible who previously persecuted followers of Christ, states, “He did this so that they might seek God, and perhaps they might reach out and find him, though he is not far from each one of us” (Acts 17:27).

You are destined for an abundant life inclusive of your life after death, i.e. eternity, which Jesus Himself demonstrated by rising from death. The only condition is that we all must pass through the judgement before His throne. The Bible states,“because he has set a day when he is going to judge the world in righteousness by the man he has appointed. He has provided proof of this to everyone by raising Him (Jesus) from the dead.” And further it also states “Before God and Jesus Christ, I give you a command. Christ Jesus is the one who will judge all people—those who are living and those who have died.”.

He is coming again to establish His kingdom as said in the Bible. Christ Jesus is going to judge the living and the dead. Beloved this means the dead are also going to come to life to face judgement and be part of the eternal kingdom of Christ, as Jesus promised. Do not limit your hope to this life alone or on the fate of uncertain rebirth. Learn to know Christ the resurrected Savior. You will find life enriching and promising. 

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