When
it comes to humans, we have parameters to assess a good person and
one living up to the standard. It varies with our expectations
from others. But the fact is, the real quality of a person can be
determined in two ways:
1.
His investments, and
2.
His associations.
If
we observe where one splurges his/her money or with whom one often
associates, we can pretty fast predict the kind of person he/she is.
Paul
Enenche in his book ‘21 Foolish Things People Do’ puts this beautifully “Wise people spend their money to upgrade their life. Wise people
spend their money on good things that which is enriching to oneself and for
noble causes too. They invest in information, in knowledge and in study.
Foolish people spend their money on what can make them feel good at the moment.
They spend on what can make them look good at the moment. They spend on what
can make them feel like they belong at the moment. Their destiny is limited.”.
People
today have ample of options and ways to engage themselves in what satisfies
them for the moment. Young people have countless opportunities. Most of
their financial investments and time is toward relationships, dating,
giving gifts and pleasing each other. They follow their instincts. They
think it is their right to enjoy their youth and feed their emotions
with unfulfilling stuff that sucks them into a black hole till they
end up emotionally bankrupt.
The
next thing that impacts the life of someone is with whom they associate.
Mind matters. Especially, the wrong ones have a greater impact in one’s
life. The Bible says “Bad company corrupts
good morals”.
It
is important to note that anytime you stop growing internally, you will stop
growing externally. When you stop growing in revelation and information,
you really stop growing indeed. You cannot be stagnant inside and move
forward outside and vice versa, you cannot move forward inside and be
stagnant outside. Every time there is an improvement inside, there will
certainly be an improvement outside.
The
Bible says, “But a noble person plans noble
things; he stands up for noble causes.”. If you notice many
with wealth and high status are trying to find wrong pleasures from wrong
sources. They end up becoming weary and finally switch to nobler causes like
helping the poor.
It's undeniable that we are made in the image of God, with a moral compass instilled in our heart to do what is right and enrich each another. Till we follow what God has instilled in our hearts we will not find peace and lasting joy. Don’t drag yourself to the point of despair and then scramble back to what promises peace.
It's undeniable that we are made in the image of God, with a moral compass instilled in our heart to do what is right and enrich each another. Till we follow what God has instilled in our hearts we will not find peace and lasting joy. Don’t drag yourself to the point of despair and then scramble back to what promises peace.
You
can have the peace and lasting happiness when you connect to God the savior.